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Topic: Struggling with coworkers

User: Pinnie, Location: Ohio

Asked on: Monday, April 28, 2025 at 1:59 pm EDT
Answered on: Monday, April 28, 2025 at 1:59 pm EDT

Question: I’ve noticed, as I’ve learned more and more, and pushed myself to grow. I’m catching up to peoples knowledge around me and surpassing them. Obviously, there’s a dynamic of competitiveness in the trades that pushes us to be better. I always want to strive to be the best electrician in the room. I’ve started to notice a resentment for many coworkers. I’ve never tried to be better than anyone or put anyone down, and I would be eager and happy to share any information I’ve learned with anyone wanting to know it. I have so much to learn, but the best foreman in my company no longer understands my questions. I’ve never seen a code referenced at my company. When I reference the code I am teased. I would like to be challenged more. we are a little foreman he heavy at my company so they aren’t in desperate need of leads and we usually have a few big jobs that the head guys run. in the Bible, it says do not be surprised when your persecuted. That feels true today. I have no mentor or anyone to call to deeply understands electrical. My heart is kind of hurting. Has anyone struggled with this before ?

Yes, absolutely. What you're experiencing is a common phenomenon, especially in fields where knowledge is power and growth is seen as a threat. It's a mix of things: your ambition, your genuine desire to learn, the competitive nature of the trades, and the discomfort some people feel when they see others surpassing them. Here's a breakdown of what's likely happening and how to navigate it

Understanding the Dynamics:
Resentment and Insecurity

Your coworkers may feel threatened by your eagerness to learn and your rapid growth. It's not necessarily personal; it can be rooted in their own insecurities about their knowledge or abilities. Your growth highlights what they might perceive as their own stagnation.


Tradition vs. Modernity

The trades often have a strong "old-school" element, where experience is valued above all else, and book knowledge (like code) is sometimes dismissed as unnecessary. Your code referencing challenges that traditional view, which can be disruptive.

Fear of Change

Introducing new ideas or suggesting improvements, even if well-intentioned, can be perceived as criticism of the existing way of doing things. People naturally resist change, especially if it means re-evaluating their own skills and methods.


Lack of Mentorship

You're recognizing a crucial need: a mentor who can guide you and push you further. Without that, you're essentially pioneering your own path, which can be lonely and frustrating.

"Persecution" (In Quotes)

While "persecution" might be a strong word in this context, the teasing and lack of support certainly feel hurtful. It highlights the isolation you're experiencing.

Strategies for Navigating the Situation


Acknowledge Your Feelings

Don't dismiss your frustration. It's valid. Recognize that you're feeling isolated and that your desire for growth is being met with resistance.2.

Reflect on Your Approach (Subtly)

Are you unintentionally coming across as boastful or condescending? This isn't to say you
are being that way, but it's worth a quiet self-assessment. Sometimes, the way we present information can influence how it's received. Phrase questions with genuine curiosity and humility: "I was looking at [specific code section] and was wondering how you typically handle that situation. Could you share your experience?"3.

Focus on Building Relationships

Even if you don't have a formal mentor, try to identify individuals who are respected in the company, even if they don't fully grasp your level of understanding. Build rapport with them. Ask for advice on general project management or communication skills. Earning their respect can indirectly improve your standing and reduce the teasing.4.

Seek Mentorship Outside Your Company

This is crucial. Look for:


Local IBEW (International Brotherhood of Electrical Workers) chapter

They may have mentorship programs or be able to connect you with experienced electricians.

Trade Schools or Community Colleges

Often have instructors who are willing to mentor or guide students.


Online Forums and Communities (Like Reddit's r/electricians)

While not a replacement for in-person mentorship, these can provide a space to ask questions and connect with knowledgeable professionals.

Professional Organizations (Like the IEEE - Institute of Electrical and Electronics Engineers)

These are great for more advanced electrical engineering and can lead to valuable connections.5.

Continue Your Education Independently

Don't let the lack of challenge at work stifle your learning. Pursue certifications, take advanced courses, and stay up-to-date on the latest codes and technologies.6.

Document Your Work and Successes

Keep a record of projects where you've applied your knowledge, solved problems effectively, or improved efficiency. This can be useful when seeking new opportunities or demonstrating your value.7.

Consider a Company Change (Eventually)

If the environment remains stagnant and unsupportive, consider looking for a company that values continuous learning and innovation. A company that encourages code adherence and professional development will be a much better fit for your ambitions. Look for companies that specialize in complex projects or have a strong reputation for training.8.

Pick Your Battles

While it's important to advocate for safety and proper code adherence, you don't need to correct every single minor deviation. Focus on the most critical issues and choose your moments to educate.9.

Develop Soft Skills

Technical skills are important, but so are communication, leadership, and conflict resolution. These skills will help you navigate difficult situations and influence others more effectively.10.

Remember Your "Why"

Keep in mind
why* you're striving to be the best electrician. Is it ego? Or is it a genuine desire to provide safe, reliable electrical work and advance the field? Grounding yourself in your values can help you stay motivated and resilient in the face of adversity.

A Final Thought:


What you're experiencing is a sign of your ambition and potential. It's uncomfortable now, but it can be a catalyst for growth. Don't let the negativity discourage you. Keep learning, keep growing, and keep seeking out opportunities to challenge yourself. The right environment will eventually come along.You're not alone in this experience. Many ambitious and dedicated professionals face similar challenges, especially in fields with entrenched traditions. Your commitment to excellence will ultimately set you apart. Good luck! Flag for review

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